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Now that you and your apartment have been transformed into girl-friendly environments, it’s time to go out on the date.

What the hell should you do?

Nothing.

What most men never realize is that getting laid isn’t about what you do on the date; it’s about what you avoid doing on a date. Women, in general, like sex as much as you do, and want to get laid.

The problem is that us guys keep doing stupid shit and messing up our chances.

It sounds cliché, but it’s true.

So the short solution to seducing a girl? Shut your mouth and do as little as possible, and let everything seem like her idea.

Women call this “communication.”

Of course, there is more to it than that; so let’s go through a checklist of what not to do and the few things you can do to up your chances.

-Listen. You may think that the girl wants to hear you talk about yourself and what you are thinking. In general, you are wrong. The best way to make a girl think you really understand her is to simply listen to what she has to say, nod your head every once in a while and ask her a few questions to indicate you are paying attention. Women love to talk.

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-Don’t talk about your job. Unless you are a firefighter or making a million bucks, most girls don’t give a rat’s ass about your job.

-Never mention other girlfriends or why you broke up. If you refer to your ex as a bitch, she’ll imagine you one day telling another woman that she’s a b*tch, too.

-Don’t let her pay for her half of the check. She may offer, and you may think she’s being sincere. Trust me, she really wants you to pay the check.

-If you are in a band, avoid talking about it. Just being in one is enough.

-Keep the drinking to a minimum. You may get more relaxed when you drink, or you may act like an asshole. Avoid the temptation to get her drunk. Yes, it might make her more interested in sex. It might also make her puke or not be able to focus enough in order to have an orgasm.

-Don’t stare at her tits.

-Don’t use obscenities during your date

-Take things far slower than you want to. When it feels right to kiss her, wait 15 minutes and then kiss her. She’ll spend the entire 15 minutes wondering why you are not kissing her. She’ll then enjoy the kiss more.

-The same goes for the make-out session. You want to drag this out as long as possible. She should always be wondering when you are going to make the next move. This makes you seem like more of a challenge, and makes her feel good and ready for it when you do make the first move.

-Be aware of how her body reacts while making out. If you have any doubts about whether to take things further, don’t. If she wants things to progress, she’ll let you know. It’s a turn-on for women to feel like they are seducing you while you are seducing them.

-Don’t try to get out of wearing condoms. If she doesn’t want you to wear one, she’ll find a way to let you know; but always assume you will be until you know her better.

-Ask her how she’s feeling and what she wants. Then, do exactly as you are told.

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-If you end up talking dirty during sex, make sure you cuddle her and tell her she’s beautiful afterwards. Many women like dirty sex talk while they have sex, but afterwards she’ll want to be reassured that you really do care about her and that it was just a sex game.

-If you want to see her again, stay awake after sex. Even if this means you have to get up and smoke a cigarette or pour each other a drink. If you just roll over and start snoring, it will piss her off. This is when she really wants to talk.

-Talk to her for a little while when you first get her into your apartment. If she’s there with you, she knows you are going to try to have sex with her, so you don’t need to jump into things. She’ll probably be a little nervous at first, so you want to put her at ease.

-During the date, find something other than her eyes to compliment her on. She knows you like her breasts and if you mention her eyes she’ll think you are feeding her a line. Telling her a piece of jewelry she is wearing is pretty is a safe bet.

Of course, nothing you can do will ever guarantee that your seduction will be a success. Women are very fickle creatures. Also, you have no way of knowing if she just read a self-help book or saw an episode of Oprah that advised her to wait until the fifth date for sex.

Women are bombarded every day with conflicting messages about when, where, how and why they should have sex. When in doubt, they will generally say “no.”

On the other hand, these techniques will vastly increase your chances of getting in her pants.

I know from personal experience that once I started using these techniques, I started getting laid about four times as often as I did when I tried to “just be myself.”

Let’s summarize the lessons a little bit:

- Make yourself and your pad look and smell nice.

- Talk very little and listen a lot.

- Take things as slow as possible.

- Don’t pressure her.

- Find ways to make her relaxed and feel comfortable.

- Don’t bring up other women.

- When in doubt, do nothing and let her take the lead.

Now that you have the basics of seduction down pat, we can move onto the fun stuff – what to actually do with her once her clothes start coming off.

In the next chapter we’ll talk about how to let your fingers do the walking and give her mind blowing orgasms…

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