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What should I do with my girlfriend?!?
ok last week, my girlfriend has said that we shouldnt be together because she is way too busy with her school and work and wants her space. I am trying to get a job and get my firefighting career into gear. She says if we both or I have my shit together we could get back together. Recently I over reacted and bugged her about our break up, she says she loves me and cares about me but she has to deal with her life for right now. We just had a talk today and it seems like shes holding a grudge and putting a stern attitude toward me, but she says she still loves me and cares for me. Do you think she will still love me down the road? Do you think we would be able to work out and be happy together down the road?
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Give her the space she has requested and focus on you. Get yourself together, stay friends with her without crossing the line or bugging her, and then see how she feels later on..If she doesn’t want to be with you, then you have to move on.
Depending on the situation of your relationship, sometimes it is good to step out of it and get all your channels together; whether it be career, self, or whatever. Love never fails. Give it a chance. If it is real it will withstand all things.
Just give her space, if you keep bothering her about it she will end up avoiding you. Try to talk to her on the phone sometime or make plans with her when she’s not busy.
Sounds like she is pretty smart about this one, Back off and each one of you should focus on what will make each of you better and more successful then if its meant to be time may bring you back together. take care of your career and let destiny do the rest. Good Luck@
Just give her space, but i do think if she dose love you, then there will be love down the road, just let her know how much she means to you first.
I think if you give her the space that she is asking for that it will work out the way its suppose to in the end.
Good Luck!
Read the question you ask. The answer is between the lines. Give this relationship a Rest. Find a new Summer Love. This one is Cold..
respect how she feels. dont put pressure on her. give her some space. See how that works!
The Best thing to do Would be to take a quick break for a couple of weeks and then get back with her or just wait a little while. But I think The Worst thing to do is bug her, just give her some space and Let her be.
Hope This helped!
~Lorin
Put your relationship on pause!!!! Give her the space she needs so she can concentrate on her school work,while you are doing this get your job and stay busy!!!! (as to not bother her!!!) If you love someone set them free if it meant to be they will come back!!! All good things come in due time!!! Everything will work itself out!!!